There is a theory on language put forward by
Edward Sapir (1884-1939) and Benjamin Lee Whorf (1897-1941) known as the
Sapir-Whorf hypothesis. The theory states that the structure of a language
helps to determine how its native speakers perceive and categorize experience.
It is a principle of linguistic relativity which believes that how a language
is structured influences thought patterns. In other words, the culture,
mentality, reasoning, strengths, weaknesses, behavior, etc of a people are
coded in their language. In Nigeria for instance, we have sizeable evidence in
our languages to prove that ours is a society big on respect for elders. This
is a huge society-driven responsibility which places the success, the unity of
our place, firmly in the hands of these elders.
It is for this reason that in Nigerian languages
– in all that I know – there are no equivalent words for “brother”, “sister”,
“niece”, “nephew”, “uncle” and “aunt”. In Yoruba for example, your sibling has
to be defined (and, of course, conceptualized by you) as an elder or younger
sibling. So, instead of brother and sister, there is only “egbon” and “aburo”,
the older or the younger. This ensures that hierarchy is instituted right from
the start at home. Respect for elders has become automatic. Has care been taken
that this privilege is not abused, or is this what has brought us to where we
are today?
Being the smallest unit of a society,
gerontocracy and hierarchy begin from the family; so is taking responsibility.
If, as the first child, you enjoy the prerogative of making the first choice,
then you are also groomed and expected to take responsibility. This is the
ideology behind the notion of ministerial and collective responsibility. We can
safely say that our customs, cultures and traditions were designed for
responsible leadership by our forbearers.
This respect for that burden is evident in the crop of leaders that
emerged during the struggle for self-rule. The Azikiwes, the Awolowos, the
Saudanas, the Balewas were the last set of leaders who followed the trusted
leadership template encoded in the way we were programmed to live.
Today’s leaders have failed. They only crave the
one side of the leadership coin which gives them access to our natural resources.
They are totally focused on hogging what has been entrusted to them to
equitably distribute. They do not take responsibility as leaders of big society
and lead by example, such that we are taught by example to mimic the good deeds
of the elder, our role model. Instead, we are taught only arrogance,
recklessness, greed and selfishness; a very explosive combination in a young
poorly groomed mind.
In the Nigerian family, when the elder shirks
responsibility, that institution called parenting withdraws the perks attached
to their ‘office’. Other watchdogs such as uncles, aunts, etc are available to
constantly remind them of their responsibilities. The extended family is very much
part of this foundation and consequently any clan member could lodge a valid
complaint, which would strip elders of their place, if found to be wanting. At
what stage did we lose these control mechanisms?
Today, ruler-ship
has replaced leadership. His is extractive and selfish and will unwittingly
harvest unrest, whilst trying to protect his priority, his selfish interest!
The consequences of years of this elitism are here for all to see. What we are experiencing today is our failing
state. The Northern part of Nigeria is particularly worrisome. I may be wrong,
but in my opinion there are three failed predominantly Islamic areas in the
world: Afghanistan, Pakistan and Northern Nigeria. Everywhere else where there
is conflict with a majority of Muslims involved (such as in Palestine, Egypt or
Iran), the people there can articulate their grievances or what they stand for.
Who is
Boko Haram? What do they want? If they are a pro-Muslim organization, then why
are they killing their own, terrorizing the nation and attempting to break our
unity? Our leaders can answer these questions. The system has failed the people.
We have been excluded and the vast majority is young, poor, idle and uneducated.
An explosive cocktail which we cannot run from as we do not know when and where
they will chase us but chase us they will. We hear the same clichéd statements
every day, while the death toll soars. We must fight for a voice and take
Nigeria back.
Abuja
Bomb Explosion
My thoughts and prayers go to the families of
those who lost their lives in that heinous attack in Nyanja, Abuja. It could have
been any of us. May their souls rest in peace and may their lives like so many
before them not be lost in vain.